Show & Tell with Ali, 10 years old, on Borneo

Jul 4, 2013

We’re doing WHAT for summer vacation is a question that you might have heard recently at home. It is also the title of a quirky non-fiction book told by Ali, a typical nine year old American girl who spent the summer traveling across Borneo with her older brother and  parents. Ali ‘just wanted to be a normal kid spending summer at the beach”. But her hippie parents saw it differently. In this collaborative project with her mother Cindy, a university professor who holds a PhD in social work, Ali tells us candidly about her experiences living in a tree house, experiencing bedbugs, eating strange food, and learning a little about Muslim culture. A perfect summer book for children (and parents).  Below Cindy and Ali tell us all about their writing collaboration, the journey, the memories. I hope you find it as inspiring as I do.
 
Before you buy the book here, try your luck to WIN one of the 3 GIVEAWAYs!  You just need to leave a comment below. 3 winners will be picked at random.
 
the family in Borneo
 
ALI: Tell us a bit about yourself…
I am 10 years old and live in Franklin, Tennessee with my brother, Zak, (13 years old) and my mom and dad. I have three dogs, a rabbit, a kitten and a horse.  I love gymnastics and riding my horse. When I am traveling with my family, the hardest thing is that I really miss my pets, but I do get see new animals like orangutans and monkeys.
 
CINDY: How did the idea of the book come along?
 
 I had the idea to write a book when Ali began searching for information on Borneo, and she could not find much at all about the area. Most travel books are written from an adult point of view, so I thought it would be interesting to write a travel book from the viewpoint of a child traveling around the world.
 
Ali in Borneo
 
ALIhow was it to collaborate with your mom?
 
It was great to write this book with my mom. She would write the first draft of each chapter, and I then I got to take a red pen and correct and change stuff. Because it was my story, I got to decide what we put in the book.
 
CINDY: Tell us about the way you like to travel with Ali?
 
My husband and I backpacked for years around Asia and Africa, and we lived for about 10 years overseas in Hong Kong and Australia. We moved to the USA about 12 years ago, when my son was 1 year old. We try to travel with our children as much as possible. In the past, we have been to Australia, New Zealand, Ireland, England, Mexico, and Belize. Since Steve and I had spent a significant of time travelling in Southeast Asia, we wanted to take our kids to see this part of the world. Borneo was a place that we had never been and it sounded like a great adventure. We didn’t really know much about Borneo, but just decided it sounded like a good place to experience the Asian culture. We were not very organized, but I am a professor so I contacted a university in Borneo as a starting point. We also relied on the “Lonely Planet” guidebook of Borneo because it gives advice on how to travel off the beaten path and on a budget.
 
the island of lost children
 
ALI: What was most interesting during the trip?
 
The things that I remember most about Borneo are the poor children, leeches, the animals, and getting trapped in the stairwell (I still have scary dreams about that!). Some of my favorite things were scuba diving with the giant turtles, staying with the locals, and the island of lost children.
 
CINDY: How easy was it to travel to Borneo with a 9 year old. Any tips to share with parents who would want to embark on a similar journey?
 
Travelling with kids is always challenging and a slower pace. They had a very hard time getting over jet lag because they just wanted to sleep when they were tired instead of fight through it to get on the new time schedule. Kids are very adaptable to new situations and cultures often more than adults. In order to really experience new cultures it is important to get away from the nice resorts and do things off the beaten path. Staying with local families or in local villages is a great way to experience the cultures. Adults can learn about cultures by visiting museums and reading about things, but children learn by actually experiencing the culture. My other advice for parents is to travel independently rather than in a “tour” group because kids travel at the own pace and need time to experience the culture on their own.
 
ALI: Did you bring back anything special aside from exciting stories to share?!
 
We only had one bag each, so we could not bring much stuff back home with us. I did get a little stuffed orangutan because my parents wouldn’t let me have a real one.
 
orangutan in Borneo
 
CINDY: And some travel information about Borneo specifically?
 
It took us 40 hours to get to Borneo from Nashville, TN! – we went via Los Angeles, Japan, Singapore, and finally Borneo.  Our first stop was Kota Kinabalu, and I would highly recommend the Langkah Syabas Guest House run by a wonderful couple, Lisa and Peter, who treat everyone like family. There is a goat named, Louie, that freely roams around the property. We then traveled across Borneo to Sandakan. Our favorite place to stay was in a tree house in the middle of the jungle in a backpacker’s place called Paganakan Dii. For scuba diving and snorkeling, I would recommend Mabul Island, but be sure to bring clothes or shoes for the poor children living on the island! On the other side of Borneo in Sarawak, I  highly recommend traveling to see the Longhouses and spending a few nights with the locals. It is a fantastic way to see their way of life and culture.
 
boom cover we're doing what for summer vacation
 
Ps: leave a comment below to win one of the 3 books that Cindy & Ali are giving away to BozAround readers.
Update: This giveaway is now closed.

10 Comments

  1. Nathalie

    Very Inspring story Vanessa as we are about to set sail to a long trip to Southern Africa with our children

    Reply
    • vanessa

      I cannot wait to hear all about your Southern Africa trip with the children!

      Reply
  2. Chantale

    Wow.. What an experience! Traveling with kids can be, well, is expensive so having them see the world is such a treasure. Kudos to her parents! It’s also the best ‘schooling’. I’d love to read this with my 8yo.. Let’s see Borneo through the eyes of Ali..

    Reply
    • vanessa

      Yes, another way of schooling. it’s exactly that!

      Reply
  3. Emma Khatchadourian

    Dear BozAround,

    This sounds like an interesting book about a family vacation. I travel with my family all around the would, this has inspired me to write about my holidays and my past. I like the sound of this book and I could recommend it to friends. Ali sounds like a role model.

    Reply
    • vanessa

      Hello Emma, I am sure that Ali would be touched to hear that she is acting as a role model!

      Reply
  4. Natasha

    I’ve always admired parents that think outside the box in terms of providing experiences and learning opportunities for their children . I have a few bloggers that I admire as a result. Now to read about Ali and her mum writing a book – this sure adds the cherry to the cake. Well done . Great interview !

    Reply
    • vanessa

      Hello Natasha, and I am pleased to have discovered your great blog at the same time!

      Reply
  5. Alice Knight

    Ali must have had an amazing adventure. I think this book is going to be a real treasure to anyone who wins it.

    Reply
    • vanessa

      hello Alice, I am happy to hear that it got you inspired!

      Reply

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